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[Read: 20 unmistakable signs your friend is crushing on you] #3 She makes up ridiculous rendezvous with men, but you haven’t ever met them.
Susan always had “Pedro” or some “guy” she met at some random bar, but there wasn’t ever a guy in her life.
Just because you don’t know why she wants to spend time alone with you, doesn’t mean that she isn’t getting pure desire from this intimate time.
#9 You feel strange dressing or undressing in front of her.
It seems like everyone around me can spot a lesbian. And I never asked myself the question, “Is she a lesbian?
And if you get the vibe that they like you a little more than they should, they are probably a lesbian. If you start dating someone, and suddenly it was like you never existed, then that’s weird. And that may mean that she likes you as more than a friend.
And it’s not like the case where she got mad that you were the cheerleader who was always dumping her friends for the football player. If she suddenly has no interest in you because you are dating someone, then you turned her off when you were turning her on. If you have been able to talk about everything, but when it comes to guys it is totally off limits, then you are with someone who doesn’t want to hear about you liking someone else. [Read: How to tell if two girls are actually more than just friends] #7 She hates every guy that you are attracted to.
But at certain times, I can look back at things, add them up, and finally see what was, well, right in front of my face.
Needless to say, when my husband and I began to get serious, she wasn’t into hearing my “girl talk.” She didn’t care much for my crush, and she literally just stopped talking to me. Surely, it was because I had blown her off because I was so blindsided by love.