Dating tips for shy women
It’s scary going up to a random woman and basically cold-calling her.
Let me tell you, I couldn’t do it, and I don’t know if once you do it, it ever gets easier. He still wants to throw up every time he starts to approach a stranger, and even after the initial contact, he’s still nervous.
William Chou, from The Good Men Project, on the other hand, says that after many attempts at this style of picking up women, this reverse-psychology strategy has almost never worked.
I wanted a way to solve this problem, once and for all…
😉To say that meeting women is just a numbers game is to completely take the human aspect out of it. The minute you start looking at talking to women as a “numbers game” is the minute you fail.
You won’t be able to think about each woman as a unique experience–you’ll only be able to focus on what your ratio up to this point is.
He says that the amount of women you talk to doesn’t matter if you’re having really awful conversations and meetings with every one of them. Now, if you only talk to three women in a week or two, but you hit it off with one or two of them, then you’re doing great. Make sure that your focus is to make the best out of each singular meeting, not what number she is on your list.
This might be the most enticing piece of advice for the shy guy.