Dating israeli guys
Any kindness or compassion I show is interpreted as a kind of natural servitude.
In their minds, I’m not kind to them because I was raised with strong values; I’m kind to them because Africans are supposed to be servile towards everyone else.
However, I do not wish to become emotionally entangled and invested in a sick interaction where I have to think hard about when is the last time I answered the phone when someone called, and whether or not I’ve crossed the weekly allowable responses to SMS’s. So I’m cool with basically objectifying people who ask to be objectified.
It’s just that these people, at least when dealing with me, should understand they’re not going to get very close to me, and are on borrowed time.
I just can’t make myself have sex with a guy I know in advance is going to basically punish me for not laying still like a corpse with my head turned to the side, or cooking for him, or being concerned about his wellbeing, or basically doing what a woman is supposed to do for her man. Being honest with self, upon being informed of the real issues at play, I am having an easier time now, with the two guys who dumped me for not being Jewish.
Posts with pictures of sex are preceded by a triple X, for example: XXX hot pics.
So I don’t think I can go wrong if I pretty much wait for their compliance tests before deviating from the default tsimmer script.
Though I may seem a bit cold, I do have a high degree of pity for Israeli men who have fallen for this situation.
Well, the second one enjoyed being treated like a woman sometimes too, but he thought it was sweet that I was mindful of his needs, and stuck with me for a couple of years.
I still wish they were dead, but the sentiment is more along the lines of wanting them dead violently and dramatically, not quietly put out of their misery like sick pets. Maybe they only live because they’re too chicken to die with dignity.