Dating for 5 years and no engagement
sorry to tell u this but ten years and no ring means he doesnt see u as wife material.u need to move out immediately, be on your own for a while, and then if he wants to get back with you, tell him that you want marriage and a it, u will be glad u did...Hi Im sorry no one can state he doesnt see you as his wife no one knows whats going on in his head. I know how you feel Ive been with my fella 7 years we have a daughter and I moved out his house last year,it doesnt make them want to Marry you anymore, I never moved out because of that but I dont think my fella will marry me Im his 3rd Long term and the other 2 finished the relationship as he wouldnt Marry.I don't have that drive to keep trying to fix it anymore. " But I let him talk me into believing it will be different.I do feel that the relationship can suffer for some couples such as mine, when it been a long period of dating. These past three weeks he and I have not communicated and this morning it was a shouting match over the phone; something I don't do ( I stepped out of character) that did not make me feel good at all. I've been with my guy for well over 10 years but no proposal.I also told him that if I didn't have a ring by New Years 2015 that I was done.. Ive been with my bf for 10 years we have a child together.Both times he said that i didn't have to worry, it would be way before then. I really hate to give him an ultimatum and move out just to get a proposal because it wouldn't be real. How long do u need to know "i'm the one" so frustrating, sad, depressing, annoying! I've had some issues with infidelity after the first few years we worked it out and got through it.My best friend was with her Husband and they got Married after 18 years together 3 years ago. If you move out its really really hard 1000 times harder after living together.Ok have you asked him why he doesnt seem to want to marry you ? Ask yourself would you rather be Married just to be Married or can you be happy just as you are forever?
Well this is what our arguments are about is him proposing!!! I love him and he's a great father and I really hate to mess up our little Family but I can't go on like this. I can relate to you so much I have been with mine for 12 years since I was 15 years old we had our first baby when I was 17 years old and just had our other one in 2013 I'm now 27 years old and I'll be 28 this year and I feel like I've just watched my life go by.
It's horrible to hear, but quite simple, if he thought of you as The One, he would have married you a long time ago, it's just the way it is and I say this from experience. After 3 years together (and over a year after we had graduated college and lived together) I made it clear but he always came up with an excuse that the timing wasn't right.
I was in a 10 year relationship with a man I adored beyond believe, and he refused to marry me for a long time, one day, he just dumped me, saying he knew I wasn't the one for a long time, but stuck it out until he eventually decided to get back together with and old recently divorced girlfriend. I finally grew some balls after 5 1/2 years and left and within 3 weeks he was begging for me back and he actually got a ring but there was never a real proposal-just awkward and forced.
Or is my bf just humoring me telling me the bare minimum to keep me here.
Is he postponing proposals to keep me busy and continue leading me on that it was coming...