Dating a momas boy
His father would control his life constantly, including his entertainment, education, and where/when we could hang out.His father also trash talked about me at a family event I had attended with them, but thankfully his brother (my boyfriends uncle) called him out for being an asshole. He flipped out (I don't blame him) and told his father, who said that if I didn't get an abortion that he would sue me for trying to ruin his sons life.
Otherwise, he may never let go of mom, or worse yet, he'll turn you into his mom and expect the same from you.
If you've been together for a while and you're serious about one another, however, if she's intrusive or disrespectful of you or your relationship, it might be time to invite her to lunch for a little chat.
I'd keep it rather casual, so as to not be threatening.
Try to approach it with empathy and a sense of humor -- exhibiting these qualities tends to be the most effective when you want a man to change his behavior.
Being angry, demanding, pushy, aggressive or judgmental will probably send him right back into the arms of someone who's never that way with him, and you know just who that is!